Here’s a Simple Guide on How to Raise a Feminist Daughter

Author Chimamanda Adichie’s new book, entitled Dear Ijeawele, or A Feminist Manifesto in Fifteen Suggestions, is a letter she wrote to a friend who asked how to raise her daughter to be a feminist. National Public Radio shares the highlights of the interview with Chimamanda on the said book.

Chimamanda answered a friend not with a preachy book but a practical solution. It involves what toys to get and how to deviate from the traditional narrative of gender roles. She attacks feminism-lite,”… an example from the book is a British newspaper writing about the British prime minister and saying that her husband had ‘allowed’ her to shine. And I think it’s the kind of language that’s used so often that we just think it’s normal, but it’s so problematic. … The premise, of course, is it’s kind of like the headmaster has allowed the little girl to ascend.”

She also talks about how women are often raised to be likeable which has limited their own capacity to speak their minds and do what they want. “I think instead we should teach girls to just be themselves, and that idea that you don’t have to be liked by everyone. And it kind of makes me wonder what kind of world would we have lived in if women had been allowed to be their full selves?” Chimamanda shared.

Lastly, Chimamanda emphasized that raising your daughters as feminists starts early. She said, “If we start early to start to challenge it, push back, then, you know, a woman is more likely, when she is an adult, to have those tools to say, ‘You know, in the end I’m going to live the life I want to live.'”

Chimamanda is a Nigerian author known for her feminist novels such as Americanah and Half of a Yellow Sun and the book-long essay We Should All Be FeministsDear Ijeawele, or A Feminist Manifesto in Fifteen Suggestions is available for pre-order on Amazon.

 

[National Public Radio]

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