I don’t mean to sound like a party-pooper, but I dislike April Fools’ Day. I have trust issues already and this day is just fueling it even more because you don’t know if someone’s telling the truth or not.
I’ll admit, though, some pranks are funny when they’re executed perfectly, without harming anyone. However, there are people who go too far and border towards insensitive. One recent example is Justin Bieber, who announced his wife, Hailey Baldwin’s fake pregnancy.
The singer first posted a photo of a sonogram, and then doubled down on the joke by making another post showing Hailey in what looks like a hospital bed. If you look at the second photo close enough, it’s obvious it’s a fake hospital room because there’s no ultrasound machine in sight. Still, fans ate it up and believed the couple’s actually expecting their first baby.
If they thought that was deep, wait till they hear why it’s insensitive. Sure, these posts may be funny for some people. What they may not realize is this isn’t a good joke to make when there are women who are struggling with fertility issues.
According to the Maternal Health Task Force, around 50 million couples worldwide are dealing with infertility. Studies say this is common among women who are trying to have a second child, but Independentcited that birth rates among 20-something women have dropped. Mayo Clinic enumerated possible causes for this, including reproductive conditions like PCOS and endometriosis.
This also isn’t limited to couples trying to get pregnant, but failing to do so. Women who do get pregnant may also experience miscarriages during the first trimester. A 2018 study found that 1 in 4 women (10 to 20 percent) experience a “spontaneous abortion.”
Not only will this affect a woman’s body, it can also have negative effects on their mental health. A study published on NCBI found that 20 percent of women “become symptomatic for depression and/or anxiety” after experiencing a miscarriage. There’s also a higher risk for psychiatric morbidity for women who are younger and/or living in a lower socioeconomic class.
Imagine someone using pregnancy as a punchline. Meanwhile, many women who want kids are actually struggling to conceive and keep their unborn babies. Oh, and Justin isn’t the first person to do this, either. There have been several people in my social media circles who’ve made the same joke, relishing in the attention it got them at that moment.
So, no, you don’t get a free pass to post about being pregnant for the April Fools’ Day attention, or to possibly make a statement. It’s not a joking matter even after April 1st.
If you want a smarter and wittier way to prank someone, take notes from the likes of Duolingo, Diet Prada, and even Angkas—anything but this inconsiderate crap.
Art by Marian Hukom
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